Why We Should Stop Chasing Trends (and Start Living for Ourselves)

Think about it: for every viral trend you jumped on, how many stuck around? (RIP to the ombré hair phase that we all thought would last forever.) Chasing trends can feel like trying to drink water out of a colander—it’s exhausting, and you’re left with nothing to show for it.

Instead, imagine investing that energy into something more meaningful—your own vibe, your own quirks, and your own passions. Trends might make you feel like you fit in for a moment, but being authentic ensures that you’ll stand out for a lifetime.

The Trap of Social Media Perfection

Let’s address the elephant in the Instagram room: perfection isn’t real, and neither are a lot of those “spontaneous” moments you see on social media. Chasing curated lifestyles is a one-way ticket to burnout. Trust me, you don’t need the perfect latte art to enjoy your coffee.

The truth? People are drawn to authenticity. They love the raw, unpolished moments where you’re just being yourself.

Living for Yourself

Rick Rubin said it best: “The audience comes last.” When you create, live, or even just exist for yourself first, you’ll find that the people who matter will naturally gravitate toward you. Whether you’re writing a blog, posting on social media, or just showing up in the world, doing what feels right to you is the ultimate power move.

And hey, living for yourself doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a little retail therapy. (Looking at you, this product—a little self-love never hurt anyone.)

Let Go of the Fear of Being “Unliked”

Here’s a wild truth: not everyone will like you, and that’s okay. The moment you stop chasing validation from others, you’ll feel so much lighter. When you’re true to yourself, you attract the people who get you, and that’s worth more than a million likes on a post.

So What’s Your Vibe?

The next time you’re tempted to jump on a trend, pause and ask yourself: Do I actually like this, or am I just trying to fit in? Life’s too short to live it for other people. Embrace your quirks, follow your passions, and build a life that feels real.

Because at the end of the day, the only person you need to impress is the one looking back at you in the mirror. 💋